Grandma vexed about wedding plans

Dear Carolyn: Our 24-year-old daughter, “Mary,” is getting married this August. My mother is 84, a hard-core feminist and atheist. She views religion as an oppressor of females, and hates anything to do with church. My two daughters are somewhat religious, and the groom and his family are Protestants. When I told my mother that Mary’s wedding would have a pastor reading some Bible passages, she said she would walk out of the ceremony in protest. I got angry and told her,...